my wife's vagina is tight and I cant fit inside her. please help.?

It may be her hymen in the way or she may be too nervous. There is a condition called vaginismus. It causes the muscle walls of the vagina to tighten down preventing penetration. This is involuntary, so she can't control it if this is what she has. They say remember the other "L's" Love, liqueur, and lots of lubrication for tight situations. Try those things first.

First of all, learn about the hymen:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9qFojO8WkpA

Vaginas are not "tight", it's the hymen you're having trouble with.

You need to stretch it out, and that takes time and patience and LUBE.

Continue what you're doing until you can work up to several fingers in. Only then should you be attempting penetration. She could also try using a series of dildos, increasing in width, to stretch the hymen open.

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It sounds like your penis is above average size, and her vagina is below average size. This is not a big deal.

Let me help.

You said "a lot of foreplay" let me just tell you that you're not doing enough, and I can already tell. thats ok tho, because you are new at this...

You two are going to explore each others sexuality with each other.. this needs to be fun, and free of pressure and worry... start out by opening the lines of communication... how comfortable are you both with talking about sex? Start talking about sex. Talk about everything about sex. She's your wife, your partner, what can;t you talk to her about? Talk about how you feel and how she feels... But in the mean time... go educate yourself on the female sexual anatomy...

your wife needs to get wet, her pussy needs to be juicy, not just moist. I'm talking dripping wet... like enough to stain her panties wet... do this by pleasing her, touching her, kissing her, learning how she likes to be kissed, where she likes to be kissed, where she likes to be touched how she likes to be touched.. watch how she plays with her clit on her own, and mimic that movement... if she doesn't play with herself... encourage her to do so... we're talking about bringing you two closer together sexually.. and she needs to get to know her own parts... has she ever looked in a hand mirror at her own vagina? probably not. Have you ever looked at her vagina, in full daylight, and just studied it... observed its beauty... do that. Get to know eachothers bodies...

When a woman becomes aroused, her pussy starts to get wet, her clitoris begins to engorge with blood, and she will get turned on and she will breath harder and she will want you... you need to bring her up to the next level... you need to keep her state of arousal here, and then keep it slowly building for about 20 minutes or so... maybe even 30... start by licking her pussy... and when i say licking her pussy, i mean licking her clit.. that is what really matters... and then start fingering her more... you should be able to get in a few fingers by now... because once a woman has been VERY aroused for about 30 minutes, her vaginal canal elongates, and her cervix and uterus shift upwards and she begins to "open up" and now she can handle your fingers, and now she can handle your dick... And believe me.. she'lll be able to handle it...

the only reason she hasnt been able to accommodate you yet, is because you guys are jumping the gun too quickly...

get silicon based lube... not water based... and use it... put it all over your dick and her pussy.. then make sure shes so wet that when you finger her and pull your finger out, its soaking wet... YES every woman can get this wet... she just needs to be aroused enough.... Make sex about loving eachother and pleasing eachother. make it about your connection and about giving to eachother... be generous with you, and have her be generous with you in return....

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Lube or water. poor some water on her Va- J -J. It will be less painful