is sex safe if we are both our first?

It's safe most of the time as long as you wear a condom correctly. If you mean safe from STDs then the answer is yes but you should still wear a condom unless you're trying to get her pregnant.

yes it is, you just need to know what to do to be safe..use condoms and a lot of lubricant. go on YouTube and type in laci green she is a sex education expert and talks about all this stuff. she is young and understands.

Yes, just as long as you use protection then its very safe. But if he refuses to use it, then just say no till he does.