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she left me for my friend and I have to see them everyday?
On a college track team and I was dating a girl on the team, she ended things two weeks ago saying to just be friends I said I will not be friends. I go to a party today and she's all over and went home with one of my "friends" who is also on our track team. She was texting this guy while we date but said his just a friend and not even her type she said and I believed it. I'm so hurt by this I have to see them every single day and right now they are having sex, this is so painful, how does one even move on from this..the pain is so incredible.. she lied to me I can't believe I gave myself to a lying whore, what type of people do this? How can you do this to someone you say you care about??
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- 6 years ago
You have to realize this is how women are. They will turn on you at the drop of a hat unless they respect you. You need to be in control at all times, in control of yourself most importantly. Never be submissive, but don't be overly aggressive. She never would have left you unless you gave off some sort of signs of submissiveness (or unless your "friend" looks like George Clooney in his prime). Regardless, there's obviously something appealing about your "friend" whether it's his body language, attitude or how he looks. Women are just doing what's best for themselves, more specifically what they FEEL is best for themselves.
You have to move on from this girl. She appears to be extremely selfish. Some women are more caring than others. In my opinion she seems like a whore and I would personally ignore her entirely if I were in your shoes.
Always be in control and have direction while treating her well, and your girl will have little reason to leave you.
Source(s): Personal experience - Anonymous6 years ago
I am sorry but she probably felt a connection with your friend. It wasn't intentional.