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How to tell if a girl likes you?

I go to school with this girl, we have had a few classes together, and she is part of my group of friends. Recently (last few weeks) we have started to talk alot more. At first it was a bit after class but now for even longer, she also added me on facebook and what not. She asked me if I wanted to stay and watch an event my school was putting on, so I stayed and we didn't even watch, we just talked the whole time. She looked very interested the whole time, asked questions, laughed alot, and sat pretty close, also never looked at her phone besides to show me something. She was also very open about herself. Then a few days ago after class we talked a bit, I knew she was done and going to head home, but she kinda looked disappointed, almost like she wanted me to ask her to do something.

Whenever we first see each other in class she always looks at me and smiles, and looks me right in the eyes, I make sure I smile back at her as well. I can tell its a genuine smile as well, not forced or anything. She also acts differently when we are in a group of friends together, almost as if she is nervous.

I am probably just over analyzing everything, but does it sound like there is something there? because I really like her as well. How could I tell if she is just being friendly and doesn't see me in that way? I am in University but It feels like I am still in jr high! I am so bad at this.

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  • 5 years ago

    Well, being a girl, I think you should come right out and say you have feelings for her. Us girls like it when a guy is totally honest and upfront about this kind of stuff. But I know you're scared about rejection, all of us are, so if you don't wanna be totally honest yet, maybe you should ask her if she likes someone. If she says yes, maybe it's you :) Then you should ask her who it is. If she doesn't wanna tell you, it's probably because she's scared that you don't like her back. Hate it when this happens. If she doesn't wanna tell you, be like "I'm not gonna tell anyone. Plus, I'm sure this guy likes you back." Maybe that'll loosen her up a bit to tell you. If not, keep trying, but don't bug her every day. And to gain her trust/show her that you care, if she ever looks down or something, ask her whats wrong. If she shakes her head, just give her a big hug and tell her that you're there if she ever needs to talk. We love comforting guys. But never force the answer out of her. Hope this helps :)

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Only way is to ask her

  • 6 years ago

    I would say that she does.... honestly.

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