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How to be myself?

At school, I'm having trouble making friends, and I don't know what to do. I get insecure really easily, and I get too sensitive about what others think about me. I have friends that I don't enjoy hanging out with and have lots of drama. I have a split personality, which makes me different in two places. My problem is that I'm way too insecure, and I worry about who I hang out with. Which I hate about the most because that sounds self-centered. I'm a quiet, shy person at school, but the opposite when with close people. Help me?

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  • 6 years ago

    I get what you mean with friends and drama, it's the last thing you want, I've been through it and ive left them people behind and now I'm much more happier.

    I would say to first work on yourself a little as in, when you look in the mirror don't notice the bad things focus on what is good about you and things that are unique to you.

    With the friends thing I would say take a leap of faith, just start talking to people, start up a conversation and be friendly, I'm not saying it would lead to a friendship straight away but it would help you open up to the idea of talking to new people and get you comfortable with them :)

    Hope that helps you :)

    Source(s): Personal experience
  • 6 years ago

    Do what you want. Act like how you do at home :)

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