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Does my girlfriend really love me? weve been together & lived together for 10 months, im very confused on what to do any help is appreciated?
So I'm 24, she's 21. To make a long story short, I found out that she had went on a date to get food with another guy while I was at work, and the way I found out was by seeing the guys name in her phone under one of her girlfriends name. She tells me she loves me, and wants Noone but me, and that she was sick about it the whole time she was with him, and made him take her back to her mom's, and that she wants to marry me, she said she done it because she'd never been asked on a date before, and she thought that I didn't love her anymore because we fight alot. It really seems that she wants to be with me, but she betrayed me, and I honestly don't feel the same way about her that I did before, no matter how bad I want to. I'm just so confused & don't know what to do, any advice at all would be much appreciated. Peace!
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- FozzieBearLv 76 years agoFavorite Answer
If you're living together, and she thinks that it's ok to see another guy, she has a lot of growing up to do. She feels sick about getting caught - that's all. She was sneaky enough to hide his name in her phone. This is not the only time she's done this behind your back.
So, you're fighting a lot, and she wants to get married? JUST SAY NO. There are a lot of good women out there who will show you respect. This one will only cause you grief. Not all couples fight, and most do not fight "a lot." This is a sure sign that at least one of you needs to mature a bit more.
It's time for you both to move on. Someone who cheats on you, lies about it, and hides numbers in their phone is not ready to be in an exclusive relationship. If she were happy with what she has, the opportunity to go on a date with someone else would not be appealing. It would be easy for her to say no.
Do not fall for her crocodile tears. She's only feeling sorry that she got caught. Honestly, will you ever be able to trust her again? I wouldn't.
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- 6 years ago
Hm. Ask her what if you did the same thing...she would have been ok with it or she would have felt betrayed. I guess your communication was bad if she didn't expressed her feelings to you. Well honestly going on a date, hiding it... it's bad. If you hadn't looked in her phone you wouldn't ever know about it?This kind of things really damage a relationship. But you know her the best and maybe she was kinda confused and make a mistake...so you could forget and forgive unless you feel other way. Being honest is the best.
