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I lost the the love of my life?
I'm 19 about to turn 20, and she just turn 18 last month. We dated almost two years coming this June. Well I started a fight over something really stupid(rather not say). It was what she did that irratated me so much. Well she broke up with me Friday right before Valentines day. Friday was our Valentin's day cause I've to work on Valentines day.
Well we're still talking like usually everyday, and every second of the day. We can talk to each other all day and not get bored of each other. Well I've been really depressed for the past three days, and ill break down really badly in go threw our pictures.
We've been seeing each other like the other day I had to go get her from work, and then take her back cause she was working double shifts. Before she got out the car she kissed me and I told her have a great day at work in smiled. Today I had to take her to PT which is physical theropy if you guys didn't know. Well on the way back home to her house she ask me why I'm so quiet. I felt really really EMPTY, and water in my eyes after she ask me that in just kept paying attention to the road.
How do I get over my depression? I really want her back cause we've alot in common, and she completes me. I love everything about her in her family. I don't wanna lose her to another guy. What should I do?
3 Answers
- 6 years agoFavorite Answer
Tell her up front. Be a man about it and launch loads of heavy weighted romantic talk. But only do this ONCE. If you just won't let loose and talking about it to her, day in day out, she will start to pity you and that's the last thing you want, because that's game over and it will leave your confidence demolished to the ground. Say all you have to say, but do it once and then after you're done tell her 'if you ask me now to walk away and never see you again, I will leave, for good.' It will set her to think. Don't accept a middle ground of just being friends or whatever, because then you'll be miserable more because you actually still follow her life. If however she says 'fine, walk.' then you have to accept it like a man. No crying, you just leave and you don't look back. In that scenario just shut off your thoughts or start planning lots of activities to keep you busy. Life's too short to keep sticking to a failure you're not proud of. I once heard: You either win, or you learn.
- SiegeLv 46 years ago
When you are young, everything feels like the end of the world, but the fact is that life goes on. I dated the same guy for five years from age 15 to 20. He was my first love, he gave me an engagement ring, we had our imaginary children named, etc. When we broke up, I was devastated. I thought, "There goes my chance at happiness and love. Now I'm going to die alone. No one else could ever be better than him." Well, guess what! Exactly six months later, I met this guy who was just breathtaking and it was love at first sight for both of us. We were exactly alike in all the ways that mattered, and different enough in all the ways that challenged us to become better people. We got married when I was 21, and this year will be our twelfth anniversary. We've had our ups and downs, but we are committed to each other and the three beautiful children we now have. I often think back to door number one, and I'm very grateful now that I ended up on the path I'm on. There really are lots of fish in the sea.
