Not cis or ftm but need advice. help?

Most people like to be liked for themselves. If you wanted to get in some woman's pants, and you said, "You're a woman, wow, that's so hot, I love women" it would not go very well.

If you want to succeed with a trans guy, you have to tell him what you like about HIM. You could tell him you like his fashion, his beard, his shyness, his smarts, his courage, his laugh. You can mention you are attracted to trans men, keep in mind though that most trans men aren't thrilled to be trans and also that people want to be loved as individuals.

Good luck!

You're not trans and you're not cisgender? That doesn't make sense. Cisgender literally just means not transgender. If you were male assigned at birth (if when you were born the doctor said "It's a boy!" and you were raised as a boy), you are cisgender.

So the trans guys you talk to are probably picking up on the fact that you seem to not know what you're talking about. They could also feel fetishized. Google that term if you don't know what it means.

Sayng you like trans guys might imply that you only like the person because they're trans and you think it's "fashionable" to have trans friends or date trans people. Maybe just don't mention it, and continue to date trans men (if possible).

What are you then? Like honestly, cis gender, meaning you're the gender you're born with???