who is right here?

There is no right or wrong. However you should understand that with no advanced warning he couldn't make plans to get off work. He does owe his employer some notification so the employer can cover your husband's work. Next time communicate better.

Did you react wrong? YES!!! Nobody signs a lease at an open house, for starters. And also, nobody does lease paperwork on a SATURDAY. He did not need to be there. If you both wanted the apartment...you would have had to wait until some time during the week (M-F) to sign the lease anyway. If your hubby is required to work Saturday, then it's likely that he'll have at least a HALF day off at some point in the following Monday - Friday. So have him sign the lease then.

And nobody, NOBODY is going to insist that you both be present at the exact same moment to sign a lease...

You way, WAY over-reacted...

I don't see it as him choosing work over your appointment. Based on if you only told him a day before. If you have told him in advance, he should of at least tried to sort something with his work. but it can be tricky to get out of work at short notice. Him keeping quiet may not have been a bad thing. He may have been thinking about what he can do tomorrow. It's better than having an argument at least

In your defense though, if you feel he isn't putting the effort in house hunting with you, telling him straight wasn't wrong.

hope this helps

Keep in kind there may be other underlying concerns he has about the apartment, or his job. He could be trying to get a promotion. Maybe works about to slow down, maybe he really likes the apartment you're in now, maybe he's questioning the future of your relationship and doesn't want to get deeper then he already is. Which ever the case, you need to communicate better. Your response to him having to work certainly sheds some light as to why he's reluctant to open up.

if he doesn't work how the hell do you expect him to pay for the apartment. get a clue, stop being dramatic. he's right. there will be other apartments, he needs to go to work. it's an open house so you don't actually have an appointment, you can just show up.

so you got mad at your guy, because he had to go to work, and since going to work isn't really a choice since you have to go unless you're injured, sick, or on vacation you're mad at him, and you think you're right. sorry that people have to work to support themselves, and their families instead of house hunting since clearly you probably don't have a job its why you're bitching about him wow you need to be punched in the throat sounds to me like you're in the wrong what kind of person are you trying to get a hard working guy not go to work so you can look at some stupid house really thats your job sweetie sorry if he has to work, but get over cry me a river, and build me a bridge thats life

No clue why you can't go and sign the lease.

Work or Apt. If he works that means more money for bills. You are so wrong.

no u did not react wrong. he was wrong. and maybe he is satisfied with whatever u have currently and does not want to move. so get to the bottom of it - if he wanted that apartment he would not work and go and sign a lease.