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How to tell my boyfriend that I don't like him smoking weed without sounding controlling?

He's offered to stop before but I just feel bad telling him I don't like it.. He acts sort of different and he only does it when he's with my sister's boyfriend, which is one of the biggest drug dealers at our school.. It's a difficult situation. I just don't like it when my boyfriend is around my sister's boyfriend, I don't like him smoking weed either.. How do I tell him this without sounding like a *****?

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  • Brook
    Lv 4
    6 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    Just say, "Hey *his name*, remember that time you offered to stop smoking weed? Well, I think I'd like to take you up on that" and explain.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    Either you accept his weed smoking or you don't. Assume he will always smoke weed, no matter what.

    Do you really see him as husband and father material? Do you want his weed smoking as a part of your future?

  • 6 years ago

    Just tell him to not do it wen your around. Your not controlling unlss u to told him to stop completely. When he offered to stop, you shouldve of said yes or atleast say that u dont like it.

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Why do you feel bad if he offered to stop?

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