Is my husbear trying to swindle me?

Hi, im 20 years old, gay and i just recentely met this older man that literally is obessed me and loves me. Ive been with him for almost 2 months now and i really love him too. I like the attention im getting and i like him inviting me over and hanging out n what not. Now this is where it gets weird, hes recently asking me for money to pay his bills,rent, money for other people for his family or like other stuff that really doesnt involve me at all so i say no to him and he gets all pissy n upset and acts like a child over it. I just let him cool off n were good. But its my money like seriously i dont mind paying for eating out, movies, or other activites and maybe even groceries. But when he just straight up ask for cash i find that uncomfortable and i tell him that too, but he still gets mad just because i tell him no for it. He says its not about the money but im starting to think it is like.... he just gives that vibe ya know. Lemme get some good feedback. Dont leave shitty feedback. I wouldnt care if your a homophobic either just lemme know ok guys.