Females: Is there any way your BF could tell you he enjoys being stimulated anally, and would like you to try it, without freaking you out?

If you're trying to get your girl to do anal just be like "yo have u ever done anal" and if she gets grossed out and asks why you asked that just say you were curious and you agree its gross. If she says "no I've never tried it" then just ask if she wants to. And if shes done it and says she didn't like it then don't pressure her into it. To not freak her out you just have to first see what her reaction is.

BTW: Just because a guy enjoys the physical sensation of anal stimulation, an activity enjoyed by SOME homosexual males, doesn't imply that he is gay, any more than my eating grass would imply I'm a cow. Yes, it's a taboo and yes, it's kinky, which may be a part of the attraction. The fact is every male has a prostate gland, the stimulation of which can be profoundly pleasurable. Also, "anal sex" doesn't have to imply penetration; I've been out with girls who just liked being touched or rubbed there, not penetrated.

Okay, first of all very few girls like the idea. It's extremly painful and is in no way appealing to women. However, if she really likes you she may be willing to give it a chance. All you have to do is just say hey can we try something different. Ask without straight up saying it. She will probably freak out no matter what. Sorry. No girl finds it attractive or fun. Fact.

I personally wouldn't try it and I'd probably joke around with him calling him gay but I'm kind of an asshole so haha

Me personally, no. But I'm sure there are many girls who are more open to butt play than me.