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Is my girlfriend ready to lose her virginity with me?

We are,together for month and know eachother for a year. So we started dating but last dates almost lead to sex,and she was the one initiating.

She then asked and we decided that on next date we would,have sex. Now tomorow is the big day,and I asked her if she totaly sure. She said "Well try and guess if tomorow im ready or not" She also said that i ajve to plan everythings. What to bring for food what to do and so on. I want her night to be special but she acts a bit with I Dont Care attitude. Why?

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  • 6 years ago

    To be honest the whole planning sex thing is never good, because the first time is never as good as you imagine it to be. It's awkward and weird, but if youre with the right person then you can eventually move past that and learn from each other. The only thing you need to "bring" is a condom. Other then that, just let it flow. It's normal to feel nervous, but don't be too nervous as it can ruin the mood. Maybe if she acts like she doesn't care it's because she isn't fully ready. Make sure she's ready, and don't put pressure on her. If you're that kind of guy, then make it more romantic with roses and candles to make her feel comfortable. If that's too much, then don't do it. Things like this should happen naturally. Most importantly, DO YOUR RESEARCH!

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