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Do i tell him its over for good?
My boyfriend and I almost broke up two weeks ago, but at the last minute said we would think about our feelings and whether we still feel we should break up. Well I have thought he isn't good for me at all, he lied to me about pretty much everything and our relationship was based on lies, so I want to end it (and take it off facebook so others know).
Yet, he texted me just then asking to meet up for tea and suddenly i am apprehensive to say the final, 'this is it'. Does that mean I don't want to ? Or that I am just nervous, as anyone would be? Does anyone have experience in this matter?
Any advice would be appreciated :)
3 Answers
- JoeyLv 56 years agoFavorite Answer
Ending a relationship is always tough especially when you're with a person for so long.
Your hesitation may be due to several reasons. Perhaps you still love him or maybe just afraid to be alone now.
But sometimes, you're feelings betray you, and you already said the entire relationship is based on lies which if it's not a valid reason to breakup, then I'm not sure what is. In any relationship, first and foremost is honesty. Without honesty, there cannot be a relationship. You would not know what is true when you read his texts or email or when you are talking to him. Basically, there is nothing there except the physical aspect but even that erodes a bit when you know that person is a liar.
- 6 years ago
Yes, you should break up with him. Do you know how hurtful it is that he's telling so many lies throughout your relationship with him? You could've broke up with him before. He's not taking it seriously when you thought he is. You should meet him up and say "We're done." Or ask him if he wants to start all over.. Based on how you feel about him. Sorry but you deserve someone better, That's my opinion. Take care.
- ?Lv 56 years ago
Change is always scary. Even good change. But yes, you should make sure this is it. Who knows, he might surprise you and break up with you instead. If he does, smile and be a good sport about it, and breathe your sigh of relief after you're alone.
