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Some advice please .... Feeling lost?
So my boyfriend came over for dinner tonight. We had a nice time or so I thought. He met my flat mate for the first time.
I was making hints all night about us leaving her to it and going into my room so we could spend time together. He said he was spending the night.
After all the hint dropping i finally said I'm Going to head into my room and tried to take his hand for him to follow. He said he was just going to head home and would speak to me later.
I text him to ask what was wrong and he said I wasn't the person he thought i was. I never spoke to him all night etc he was quiet and I constantly tried to include him in conversation.
He just keeps saying I'm not the person he thought I was and when I ask if he is going to dump me he changes the subject or tells me to get a grip. I'm so confused and I don't know what to do or what I have done wrong. Is he going to dump me ?
All advice welcome xx
2 Answers
- Anonymous6 years agoFavorite Answer
You shouldn't play this game with him. If he can't hold an open conversation and communicate with you about what's going on with him, then you should beat him to the punch and break up with him. It's no fun to be left in the dark feeling like the ball could drop at any moment. He obviously had some kind of misconception about the kind of person you were, and built you up in his mind to be something you aren't. Something you did must have disillusioned him with you, and he didn't feel inclined to stick around. He doesn't sound at all invested, and judging by how he's dodging the issue, chances are he's not going to man up and get matters out into the open.
If you can't get him to enlighten you any further into his behavior, then you should cut ties. If you don't meet his standards, you shouldn't try to. Don't be afraid to be yourself, but don't hang on to this guy, especially if you're not the person he wants you to be.
- Anonymous6 years ago
He might be interested or talking to someone else . guys like to play with your emotions and feelings alot .. just take percausions, and ask him to just be real with you . No one knows till you ask him why he feels that way. Open communication is good