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Im with with my girl for almost 1 year now.
And came to conclusion she is able to change our plans so she can go out with her friends.Quite easily and with no regret of leaving me hanging.
Which is happening right now so i come here to find some comfort.
In any case i feel that she loves me, and i love her more than anything in the world.
We had a talk about who goes first bf or friends, and ive noticed she didn't say bf without hesitation. Now dont get me wrong, i love to see her go and have nice time and all with her friends, i even know that bunch and i like them.
But it irritates me that she cancels our plans so she can hang out with them, i feel like im here only when there is nothing better for fun and on top of all she always seems like she doesnt care she left me hanging. A small sorry would satisfy me.
On several occasions she told me she does not tell her friends she is going with me so they dont make fun of her that she is "again" spending time with me. Whats up with that?
She is 19 soon, is that immature behavior coming out of her or em i just too sensitive?
1 Answer
- 6 years agoFavorite Answer
There is no such thing as "being too sensitive". You are entitled to wants in a relationship, and wanting to see your girlfriend (as long as it's not to an obsessive level) is totally a normal desire. But you need to be clear and communicate with her. Let her know that when she cancels your plans to be with her friends, it sometimes upsets you, and when she doesn't apologize or appear upset, you are hurt. She may not even know that you feel this way. You guys can work out a compromise - maybe one day a week that you have a date night and nothing else gets in the way? Or if she cancels plans, it's her turn to schedule the next date? Something like that can be a lighthearted way to compromise.