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Tell girl like her over text or in person?

Whats the best way to tell a girl i like her in person or over text and what shall i say?

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  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Ask her out in person. Don't tell her you like her or say something over text. Some girls will accept but others will see you as a wimp.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    My suggestion is that you just don't tell her that you like her - instead ask her out if she's a strong woman and you are a strong man (*and you both are at least a freshman in high school for group dating and a junior in high school for one on one dating).

    Could you possibly be making dating choices mainly based upon whether someone likes you and you like them? Unfortunately this approach to dating, used by most people, usually leads to a broken heart.

    May I suggest that the first question to ask yourself when considering whether or not to date someone is, “Is this person a strong person?” If they’re not, no matter how much you like them, how much they like you, or how “cute” or “hot” they are, - please don’t date them. A strong person has good character (honesty, integrity, trustworthiness), displays a positive attitude (cheerful, caring, friendly, forgiving, helpful, and respectful), fulfills their responsibilities (for handling pains in a positive way, for always trying to make a good choice, for taking care of themselves, for serving others), gives their best effort, and demonstrates self-control (of their body, anger, tongue and money). A strong person isn't overly concerned with what weak people say, do, or think.

    My suggestion is that you put in the effort necessary to become a strong person (if you’re not already), forget about this girl unless she’s a strong person, and eventually look for this type of girl (otherwise you are setting yourself up for a broken heart). Unfortunately this type of woman is difficult to find - but save yourself the heartache and don’t settle for less.

    (Please remember that you eventually want a 50 or 60 year marriage - not a 5 or 10 year marriage.)

    Hope this helps!

    *The reason for this suggestion is that less than two percent of high school sweethearts who marry end up having a fifty year marriage.

    Source(s): True Love Lasts - written with a character emphasis for teens through young adults, Straight Talk About Teen Dating - written with a Christian emphasis for ages 13-19, Straight Talk About Dating - written with a Christian emphasis for ages 20 and up
  • 6 years ago

    in person, be straight up but tell her in private WITHOUT HER FRIENDS! If you don't feel comfortable with everyone knowing, ask her not to tell anyone but her advice giver and her best friend (they can be two very different people). Ask her if you could talk to her privately, and than just say it. she may be shocked and might not have an answer, so let her think about it.

    Also... DON'T FOLLOW HER AROUND THAT DAY. You can still hang out, but if you don't leave her alone, she will just get annoyed and creeped out by you, and that won't help you out in anyway. Oh, don't try to force her into it... she will just end up getting mad or scared.

    Source(s): Watching my friends experiences (i'm forever alone ;( )
  • 6 years ago

    Definitely in person. Us girls like to actually hear those sorts of things in person. Just walk up to her, say hi and ask how she's doing. Then tell her you have to talk to her. Say "I've been liking you for a while now, but I never had the strength to tell you."

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  • 6 years ago

    Tell her you like her over text. If she reacts okay, ask her out in person!

  • 6 years ago

    I would die if a guy asked me out in person. I feel like it's a lot more personal then texting "Hey btw i like u'.

  • 6 years ago

    In person definitely. Girls find it attractive if guys go up and straight up tell them their feelings

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    tell her in person, just be real with her and say you like her and wonder if she'd like to go out sometime.

  • 6 years ago

    In person don't be a *****

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