ive a friend i really love. she doesnt want a relationship rite now, its hard to be around her.she keeps me around. why and what should i do?

She likes you as a friend. That is what she is interested in at the moment. But maybe she is trying to sort out her feelings for you. Possibly she just doesn't want to be involved in a relationship right now, but she does like you as more than a friend. No matter what, you have to decide what you can live with. If you can be happy just being her friend for now and waiting to see if it might develop into more, then do so. But don't pressure her. Give her the space and time she needs. If you cannot handle just being her friend, then maybe you should distance yourself from her.

Just be a good friend to her and hopefully when she is ready she will go for you

Well, you can wait for her. Or you can just tell her everything. Goodluck!