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My ex started talking to me... what do you think he wants?

My ex and I have not talked since we broke up about 6 months ago. Last night, he chatted me saying that he is sorry and wants to be friends with me since we see each other so much in school and he doesn't want to continue being awkward. We both apologized to each other but this came up so suddenly that I am not sure what to do and what he actually wants. He suggested that we eat something and hangout sometime, and I said yes. Does he truly just want to be friends, or possibly getting back together? I asked a couple of my guy friends and they said that he probably just wants sex bc all teenagers do (unless he still genuinely likes me), but I strongly believe that my ex is not that type of person. He is one of the top students in our school and is very nice, but awkward. I still kinda like him so maybe I'm overthinking this so please help me!!

Thanks in advance!

Update:

After we broke up, people in school found out that I gave him blowjobs which in a good, mostly asian school, is kind of a something to talk about.... also, I had a scandal about giving a ******* to one of his friends although I did not... just FYI if it helps to determine what he wants

Update 2:

After we broke up, people in school found out that I gave him blowjobs which in a good, mostly asian school, is kind of a something to talk about.... also, I had a scandal about giving a ******* to one of his friends although I did not... just FYI if it helps to determine what he wants

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  • 6 years ago

    Don't put yourself through so much anxiety. He does seem like a good guy because he approached you first and apologize. He did not say he wanted you back just that he wanted to be friends and break the awkwardness between the two of you. If, he is trying to get back with you it seems he wants to take it slow. So if the two of you hang out again take it for what it is...a friend missing hanging out with a friend.

    I hope it all works out because you both seem like genuine people. God Bless...

  • 6 years ago

    i think he is trying to get past the first two stages(bf and gf) and he just wants to go beyond that point but he doesn't sound like other teens if you know what i mean but he's just taking it step by step. :)

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