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HONEST GUYS ONLY: Looks or personality?

Guys, honestly go by looks or personality when you like a girl? I am not obese but I could lose 20 lbs, I have a health prob that is being treated so don't judge. Anyway I was wondering if guys would see that j am not the most skinny girl and turn away from getting to know me. Also I am 4'9 and stoped growing (I am 15 and my doc said I stoped growing) so I am really short so it that a turn off? Please be honest and don't sugar coat anything. Thank you ♡

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    Lv 6
    6 years ago
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    Most guys would be lying if they said looks didn't matter at all. However, as long as you try to look the best you can and you're not absolutely hideous (I highly doubt you are), then I would prefer personality. Who cares if you're a bit short, there are short guys out there who would like you also! 4'9 is short but whatever; enjoy yourself and be proud of what you have :) Honestly, I'd prefer an avg looking girl with an awesome personality than the most beautiful girl in the world and a crappy one.

  • 6 years ago

    Personality is best, but only by a margin: if you're going to be attracted to someone, they have to have at least some degree of looks.

    Still, it'd be better to have both. You might want to lose some weight, though; if not to attract guys, then to get healthier.

  • 6 years ago

    Both have an equal share like for example i couldn't date a really hot girl who is a ***** and i couldn't date an ugly cow who is the nicest person. Both are important!

    Source(s): Cute face + Big heart = FUCK YEAH!
  • 6 years ago

    Short is cute.. I'm 14 and being about chubby isn't a bad thing for us guys. Idk maybe your really cute I can't see you so idk

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