How to convince my wife we are just friends?

Chaz, you are a phony, and it is so obvious, even though you are trying to disguise it from your wife. How could anyone justify 60 texts per day, and you being so manipulated that you cannot refuse if she asks you out for lunch?

Your wife has every reason to be suspicious, and if you were the typical 'loving husband' you would not engage in such a close relationship with an outsider.

Does this woman not have other suitors, or does she cling to you because you are 'safe?'

Think about it!

I hate to tell you this but if you are married, your wife comes before any of your friends. Even if she is your only one, you need to give your wife more time with you then her and it is the same with guy friends. Don't talk to her or see her as much, you should do that even if she trusts that you are just friends or not.

Hate to agree but it is suspicious. Try having lunch with all three of u. Double dates! And if your girl friend doesn't have a man ask your wife if she knows anyone for her. Include her more. But stop texting friends don't need to text everyday. It's weird and above all suspicious.

Stop texting her so much, stop meeting her for lunch, stop seeing her several times a week and maybe your wife will believe you. You have to walk the walk as well as talk the talk.

if its a girl then don't be her friend u will end up cheating she is not more important than your wife