Whats wrong with me? Am i insecure? Advice please & thank you!?

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My boyfriend & I have been dating for nearly two years now and I do genuinely love/care about him very much. However, He went away to college & ever since he left my emotions have just been all over the place. I start to cry whenever I see a girl like a picture of his or comment on a statues of his especially when he answers back. Ill see him in a picture with a girl and a million things will go through my mind. Its very hard for me, and I’m trying my very best to always be positive and not be a complaining little b****.  It’s weird because I trust him, and I don’t think he’d cheat on me or anything like that but yet when I see him on Facebook I assume he’s messaging a girl. I’m hurting, and I feel emotionally drained but I love him so much and I don’t want to be with anyone other then him. Can anyone tell me what’s wrong with me and how I can fix this? I’m 20, he’s 19.

Glenn · Accepted Answer

You sound insecure, my ex used to do that to me, she would get all upset if I accepted friend requests from girls in my classes, or if I didn't come home every weekend, she even asked for my Facebook password and I gave it to her and when she saw that there was nothing to worry about she just accused me of deleting all the bad stuff she thought I was doing. In reality nothing was going on and her insecurities and lack of trust pushed us apart. My advice is to calm down and control your crazy

? · Answer

If you trust him,then why are you tracking his online activity? And,how would you feel if the situation was reversed,would you want him worrying over your guy friends? I say trust a person until they give you a reason not to.

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Whats wrong with me? Am i insecure? Advice please & thank you!?

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