How can I safely try BDSM?

Always do BDSM with someone you completely trust. And always have a safe word that means to stop immediately no matter what. Discuss any and all limitations before you begin. I am submissive too and I am usually tied up with fur-lined handcuffs and/or curtain tiebacks. As far as activities, start out small and slowly. My first few times he would gag me with his socks or underwear. He would spank me. Not enough to ever draw blood. He would sit on my face and control my breathing that way. These are just some possible suggestions for activities. But play on the things that turn you on and always be safe and have a great time.

Choking? Why would u do that? And no I don't think that's a good Idea. Maybe being tied up. I honestly don't know why people my age want to have any kind of sex, but if that's what you're into go ahead. Just do it safely.

Bondage is not always about pain. As this is an all ages site I will not go into detail, nor can I recommend books or sites.

I CAN say bondage is like pizza, Even the people who like it can not agree what is the best part of it.

BDSM, is a contract between two people, the slave always has the right to say no.

I knew somebody who used some of her pairs of panties and used those to tie herself up to her bed posts and gagged herself with another pair.

But if it's tying you want, I would recommend a large pillowcase.

With chain(s) and padlock(s) you can make an irremovable collar, handcuffs, and a chastity belt that your friend can pull you by for a nice long walk. (and how painful it is depends on how much you try to resist! >:)

"Who does this body belong to?"

"I'll never submit to you-"

"What was that?!"

"ow oW! Gomennasai!~"

"Good. Now kneel."

"*sniff* hai, master.."