Am I Weird?

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Okay, so I want to know if this is weird for a girl of thirteen:

A)  I want to be in a Dominance and Submission Relationship.

Do you consider this weird for a girl of thirteen.  I just like REALLY, REALLY, REALLY want to be in a relationship where the boy/girl sets rules for me and if I disobey them they have little 'punishments' and punishments.  These relationships are only okay if the Submissive person (In this case me) agrees to it.

I just want this relationship so bad and there is only one other girl my age I know who's into that kind of thing and she already has it.

B)  I really want to have my first bad heartbreak.

But, another thing.  Is it weird that I want to be heartbroken?  I mean, I really want to know what it feels like.  I've dated guys before but I broke up with all of them, except for one and he dumped me over text.  I wanted to be sad about it but I just couldn't seem to.  I don't know.

Do you consider this weird at all?  Any of it.  I need to know that I'm not alone.  Or, if I am, I need to know that too.

Steve · Answer

Weird as in very strange, yes it is. You aren't weird; what you want to do is weird. Most 13 year old girls want nothing of what it is you claim to want to do.

You probably aren't alone though. What you have in mind, rules with little punishments if disobeyed, sounds harmless enough. Sadomasochism isn't harmless, but you don't seem to be interested in that.

You will get your wish in being heartbroken if you ever fall in love and that love is dashed. It hurts, and you won't like it. It happens to everyone though, so you'll get your turn :)

Ashlee · Answer

Lol, do you read Fifty Shades Of grey? xD I guess if that's what you're into, go for it...but 13? That's a bit young. Why don't you get a little more dating experience. Maybe you'll change you mind about what kind of relationship you want. If you haven't read Fiftt Shades Of Grey, you really should...lol.

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