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I need advice about a girl...?

So there's this girl I liked and asked out (turns out she had liked me for a couple months before I asked her out) (she was the only girl I ever dated) so we dated for about a month then she broke up with me she said she was tired of screwing up peoples lives and that she wasn't good with relationships and she thought she was a bad influence (my mom is VERY over protective) so her mom said to give her space and time to just be her friend so I did that about a month later she kinda let me back in (we were working towards dating again) she has problems trusting people but she kinda started trusting me I never did anything to brake that trust I treated her with respect I didn't flirt with other girls and I don't date girls for sex (I've never had sex and I don't plan to till I'm married) but the point is I'm very respectful to girls everyone says I'm a goody two shows which is fine but after she starting trusting me a couple weeks after she kinda just stopped talking to me (she talks to me sometimes) she seems very depressed she won't tell me why I just wanna be there for her I know she has a hard time it's just very confusing and I being a guy always wanna get answers but I know women don't like being bothered a lot or you asking them a lot of questions I know there has to trust to a certain level but I would just like to know what you guys think from what I've said does she just have problems sharing her pain thanks for your time btw she's 14 but will be 15 in 3 days and Im 15

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  • 6 years ago
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    That's a very common thing women do.. especially at that age.. before they become a total b I t c h. Pretty much means that she's not interested in you.. that or she has moved on (has a crush on somebody else) and wants to cut ties to you. Meaning pretend like she doesn't know you. I would know because I myself used to do the same thing.. and had hundreds of girlfriends who'd do this too. I'm sorry to break the news to you, but she's giving you the cold shoulder because she just isn't that into you.

    I'd suggest moving on from her, and meeting someone else, someone new. She's going to become a hoe in a year or 2. I know. Better off cutting her off as well.. otherwise she'll come back to you, but not for the reasons you think.. you'll be getting "sloppy seconds" and most likely coming to you, just to get the attention of another guy. Thus making you a "rebound"

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    6 years ago

    Women dont like to answer Qs because most of the time they are confused and dont know the answers! hehe

    Keep pushing and she will let you in..

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