I am a 27-year old virgin. Is that pathetic?

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I think people make fun of me behind me back because of it, but then again no one really knows for sure, not even my only family members! My Mom and Dad suspect I am a virgin but they have never asked and I have never told them but for all they know I could have acted on some opportunities I had to lose it when I was younger.

I will lose it someday but right now I am just too depressed and suffering from too many mental problems to even enjoy sex fully or to think about it that much. Until I get over that and my social anxiety problems I will likely remain a virgin.

I've had a pretty tough life. I got bullied a lot as a teenager and some of my own family members have treated me very meanly. I was even homeless at one point but now I live alone in an apartment. I've never used drugs but this led to a lot of depression and anxiety issues that has kept me from socializing with people. Also I am a bit of a hermit and loner. But I know I am probably missing out on something but when the right person comes along and I will lose it then. I Know it's sad but I wouldn't say it was pathetic.

It's also been suggested that I may have Asperger's syndrome but I've not been diagnosed.

ok · Answer

You would be amazed to know that many more people besides you are virgins, even to late in life, for various reasons. Even religious beliefs. That does not make you a loser. 
Your ATTITUDE could make you less successful , and you need to start loving your self, and realize that you don't 'lose' your virginity, UNLESS you are a victim before  you act..   you can KEEP your virginity , since it is yours, and then have sex with someone when you choose to. Some people take their own virginity, since it is theirs , not someone elses.   So, take your own virginity, KEEP yours always, and then decide to share your self when you do.  Don't 'lose' your virginity.   As for your personality it sounds like you are depressed and that can certainly make a person feel like not having sex.  You may be a very sensitive person who does not want to have sex with just anyone, and that is what others should do as well.   It could be that your hormones need a good check up by a hormone expert as well.   For your social concerns, go here and find someone to help you remove your fears,  emofree.com and then make a list of the things you feel you love, and lik ein life, the things /activitis etc, that you ;enjoy. The ones you feel love in your heart, then make a list of groups, people places, professional groups around those things and you will have less anxiety because you have those things in common to talk about. You will meet friends.    If you can afford it this guy is really good, and can tell you and treat you with natural things in many cases, and tell you about your brain function as well. amenclinics.com  xo the best to you

? · Answer

Being a virgin does not make you a loser, it's not a life goal. Unlike some freaks that want to have sex and a d*ck that's 10 inches long by age 12.

Carol · Answer

You ars not pathetic, ot just means you have self respect and instea dof sleeping around like other people you are waitng for the right person

Anonymous · Answer

I don't think you're pathetic, I think you're just trying to make it through life like the rest of us. Take it as it comes.

Erwin Chanputra · Answer

virgin doent mean you are a loser. enjoy your life. life not just about sex.

Anonymous · Answer

No

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