Am I a suitable boyfriend, date or lover! I am unemployed, however I have a very good education and I am currently in College study?

I've dated two girls in the last year and both of them dumped me due to being unemployed, the other one said she doesn't want to date someone, who is in College, because she would consider that person a loser. Which I find a bit harsh

I go to workshops which involves woodwork and stuff and I also belong to an Arts Workshop and a Film Workshop, which involves videoing the public, who come in to do public presentations, this also involves trips such videoing sponsored marathons etc. I also belong to a Marathon group and a Walking Group, basically we do walks at least every other day of the week. I also belong to a group which does art, cooking, day trips, creative stuff. I am doing a IT course on top this as well.

Am i kind to everyone, I am only kind to people who treat me right and are nice to me, anybody who is direct towards me, i am harsh with, else I avoid talking to them

Am I attentive, with regards to helping girls out, being supportive with this I mean helping them with the cooking, washing, general work, gardening, hold doors for them, holding hands, even if were only friends, carrying things for them, especially heavy things, i am attentive and with regards to listening to them, it depends If I like them and how I feel about them. If I don't like a girl or If I have no feelings for her, then I don't care what she says

Do I have respect for women, well yeah, there all part of the human race and have a right to be treated as equals