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Do you snoop through your husband's phone?
Just wondering how many wives think it's okay to SNOOP through your husband's cell phone? Email? Internet history? I'm wondering how many of you believe that "if he's got nothing to hide, then he's got nothing to worry about"?
Bonus question:
What would land your husband in hotter water?
A. Questionable or flirty text messages from female co-workers, and porn in his internet history?
B. NO text message history and NO internet history?
C. Finding out he put a password on his phone?!
15 Answers
- PatriciaLv 76 years agoFavorite Answer
Just because we are married, doesn't mean we have to give up all our privacy. My husband's dresser, pockets, wallet, cell phone and laptop are his and i have no reason to snoop.
Men watch porn. No one cares. It's their nature as they are visual sexual creatures, they masturbate, married or not. The porn is about nothing but fantasy. Why shame a man for his basic nature? I think that's just wrong unless his entire life revolves around porn.
I suppose if i felt i were married to someone who wasn't trustworthy, i would leave him.
- Mummy of 6Lv 76 years ago
No I don't. It's a slippery slope once you start snooping, and if I didn't feel I could trust him, we wouldn't still be married. In the same vein, if I ever felt the urge, i'd be worried.. My Husband and I have exactly the same phone, and neither of us lock them, as there's nothing to hide. We also deliberately keep the same contacts in both phones, as being the same phone we were liable to grab whichever phone was nearest at the time on the way out the door (less likely now as my phone is in a pink glittery case).. However, if he suddenly did lock his phone I would wonder why.
- CmpwthmunchkinsLv 66 years ago
No I don't snoop. I have my own phone and rarely touch my husbands. Mine was dead just yesterday day while away from home. I used my husbands phone to make a call and never even felt the urge to snoop. The only time I read text is when he's busy and asks me to read it to him.
- seedy historyLv 76 years ago
I've never "snooped" through any of my husband's communication toys/devices. There is nothing going on in our life together that would inspire me to do so. I just can't see the point.
If I thought he was having an affair.. I'd speak to HIM about it directly. If I hated something he was doing and was unable to respect him for it... that would be my issue to deal with complete with my choices to make.
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- Anonymous6 years ago
I do not snoop through my husband's phone, even thou i use it often. I m also staying on his work ipad where his email does not even require a password. Never ever did i have a desire to check anything
- ?Lv 76 years ago
I don't snoop. Neither of us has passwords on our phone, and we send texts/make calls from whosever's phone happens to be nearest. If I had reason to be suspicious I'd be justified in snooping, though, just as he would me.
- KingsfanLv 76 years ago
Neither of us checks up on the other. That said, many times my phone will beep and I'll ask her to see who it is. We have transparency, but it's not about trust issues at all. If you marry someone you don't trust, you're the only person to blame for your problems
- JoJoLv 56 years ago
No I do not snoop. I don't feel the need to do that.
I don't need to be married anymore if cant trust him.
If you snoop you don't trust... So why be married.
- 5 years ago
Most of the people do but using Leomaster app people are able to hide those thing which you guys want to see on your husband's phone.
- ?Lv 76 years ago
No I do not snoop. Actually I do not care if he's cheating, could I stop him? He'd only deny it anyway..all men cheat.