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My friend is having triplets!?

So one if my friends is having triplets and her boyfriend wants her to get an abortion for all of them, and she has lost too many babies (miscarriage/still born/ premature babies).what should she tell her boyfriend. Should she tell him no? She really wants to have them. (they have been together for a long time)

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  • Sara
    Lv 7
    6 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    It is her body, her choice. The father has no say until after birth. So if she chooses to keep, she better be prepared to be a single parent and make sure she has other support (family).

    If I were in her shoes and I knew I loved the babies inside, I would dump the boyfriend, be a single parent and take the childs father to court for child support.

  • ?
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    Obviously she wants s baby as she's lost a few so you tell your friend to tell the boyfriend to hang around if he wants because she's having those babies. I hope she's getting great medical care. Btw, How can someone go through all that? I hope you're not trolling.

  • D
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    She should keep the babies if she wants to, but she can not force the father to be involved in the children's lives. If he is not prepared to be a father, then he is quite likely to disappear.

  • 6 years ago

    I'd tell him goodbye.

    Any man who wants to tell me I need to kill my children in order to keep him is not a man I want to spend even another minute with.

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  • 6 years ago

    he can't make her I want 2 have 1 kid named Victora

  • Carlie
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    She should do what she wants. It's her body.

  • 6 years ago

    If she wants to have them, it is her choice. Its isn't his body to dictate.

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