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Random weird question lol?

I was watching this Spanish show & this mom has a diabolical child. He was born that way but he is extremely rude & does not care to build a relationship w his mom. He wants to do nothing more than kill or destroy stuff. The mother is extremely nice & wants to built a relationship w his son but gets made fun of by him. It convinced her she was was not meant or fit to be a mom. The mom dreamt he was a serial killer when he got older so she went to seek help for him not to end up that way. In the end, he does get better & now knows right from wrong. This show got me thinking lol. I feel like this might happen to me when I have a child of my own because how I see it is stuff like this happens to like nice people I suppose. I wouldn't know how to deal with this kind of behavior & I'm not sure if I would even continue to love my son. I dnt mind the typical child like behavior but I suppose I cannot deal with diabolical children who are predicted to grow up being serial killers. I can seek help but before realizing that, I feel like it might convince me that I can't be a good mother. Of course, this is just a mere rant but that's one thing that scares me about having a child since some of them are born this way lol. Whats one thing that scares you about being a parent lol Any comments or thought are welcomed :)

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  • 6 years ago

    It's the old question of nature vs. nurture. I think a lot of people who children with bad behavior want to blame it on something else and not take responsibilities for their own bad parenting. I do believe there are some bad seeds, kids who have lovely parents, a nice home and whatever they need but they still turn out to bad. Then there are kids who have a chemical imbalance and it's not figured out until they are older. I do believe that in most cases bad kids are the result of bad parenting or lazy parenting. I think society has gotten too soft with kids. It seems like things where much better when kids had responsibilities and expectations and they got disciplined for not fulfilling their obligations. There are too many kids who don't have consequences for bad behavior so they just keep behaving badly then society ends up dealing with them later in life.

  • 6 years ago

    There is a part of a developing child that is called "nurturing" that has an overriding effect on a child as he grows up. If a parent doesn't do the nurture stuff, he likely will grow up to be a criminal.

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