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? asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 6 years ago

I want no friends. Is it really that hard to understand?

I've always had many friends since elementary to high school but i just want to be a loner at this point.

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    6 years ago
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    hey honestly if you want to be alone for now it is ok...perhaps you are focusing on getting your career so that you can have a bright future as far as taking care of yourself financially. :-) you are not going to miss much. do what need to be done. Good Luck.

    P.S.

    let me know in the future how its go.

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Hey I know exactly how you feel. I am to be honest even at this time trying to be a loner. I try telling my friends that i want a break but all they do is ask me nosy questions and stuff. My advice is that you do the same. Just tell your friends you want to be alone in your life right now and that you want them to accept it no questions asked. As you can see it didn't work very well in my position. But do give it a try. If they are really your friends they'd try and understand.

    Take all the time you need. If you feel like telling them the reason why you're pushing them away it would be better but if you can't just stick to the above thingy.

    And if nothing works you can just pretend like me about stuff. LOL bad advice.

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    I wouldn't say become a loner, I'm a loner and I've always been this way. When I got to high school I became more popular and girls started getting interest in me, but I always kept them at an arms distance because I was uncomfortable being close to others (literally and metaphorically), but that's just the way I was raised: in isolation. I'm not autistic and I don't have SPD, I just am not able to relate to others because I missed key states of social development. I envy you.

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    A lot of people can't wrap their heads around the fact that some people actually like being alone. It can be difficult to break ties with people you've known for a while, because often times they don't want to accept it. Just be sure of what you're getting yourself into. You may or may not need them around in the future.

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  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    ok INFORM them but dont tell them you dontb want no more in your life just for a small period of time to relax

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