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How do I introduce blindfolds into the bedroom?

I m super shy about sex. I just have a hard time talking about it, which my husband knows. I ve been working on it a lot, but it s still weird for me. Anyway. I came across the idea of being blindfolded and I m really intrigued. I think I d like to be blindfolded. I wouldn t be into the kinky stuff that could come with it (tying up, spanking, etc.), but just losing that sense of sight could be interesting.

How do I bring this up with my husband? Like I said, I m super shy. I don t do stuff like this haha I m rarely the one to come up with a new idea for in bed. So neither of us would be used to it if I just brought it up. He d probably be shocked. How should I approach it without it being super weird?

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    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    Have a scarf handy next time you two are intimate. Hand it to him and say 'blindfold me', either that or just tell him up front before you have sex again, that you think it would be erotic to be blindfolded during intimacy (make sure there's something readily available next time you two get busy).

  • 6 years ago

    When you guys are messing around have the blindfold ready and act like you want to put it on. Just lay it across your eyes at first. Or maybe blindfold him at first. My gf did that do me once and then surprised me by secretly bringing her friend in which I didn't know about until days later.

  • 6 years ago

    Casually mention that you ran across an article on the internet about this topic and you found it interesting, and it made you think about trying it. If he's not up for it, then at least you tried right?

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