How do I tell my wife that I got another women pregnant?

Ok, speaking from a woman that has been cheated on view point.. This is guna hurt your wife...certainly since she can't have children herself. This is guna be very devastating for her. But you or you & the friend needs to tell her, I wouldn't reccomend having the friend present but that is totally your preference. Maybe a nice romantic dinner but no inter course with her until you tell her. Just be 100% honest with her about the entire situation bc honesty will always wade in your favor. She will have problems trusting you, and she may love you enough to stay and she may love herself enough to leave; but in the end you have to respect her decision. Maybe y'all could work as a "team" to have the child and raise the child with 2 moms and a dad. I do not reccomend aborting it. But that's also your preference. Good luck & God Bless.

I am very anti-cheater but I believe you when you say you love her. If this friend of yours is honestly pregnant you need to tell your wife. I recommend sitting her down, with your friend and explaining what happened. If you haven't any proof that this friend is really pregnant hold it off until you know for sure

You and the so called "best friend" need to tell her tog ether. If you loved her like you say, you wouldn't have cheated especially with someone so close to the two of you. Not to mention that she can't conceive on her own. You will most likely lose her for your mistake but better to tell her now instead of when she's having the baby.

If you loved her you wouldnt have done that to her. You don't deserve to be married. You obviously don't realize what you have. She can't have kids you don't cheat on her you encourages her and hold her and talk to her about it. Marriage is not to be taken for granted. Yes you slipped up big time. You need to tell her flat out and talk it over with her. Honestly I think you need to be a father to this child that you obviously so desperately wanted. And I think your wife needs to find a new man who won't leave her and hurt her in a time of need. I feel sorry for her.

If you actually loved her you wouldn't have cheated

well you just have to tell her the truth

why would you do this! ?