My Gran is a b*tch. I hate her. how can i confront my mom and tell her gran's making me unhappy?

Interesting. You posted this a month ago:

"I should note that I have been caring for an elderly lady for about ten years. She recently passed away and I was extremely surprised to find out that I was the sole beneficiary of her will. Don't get me wrong, we were very close by the end but she has Family. As you can imagine, the Family are not very pleased about this at all. The daughter is what you would best describe as "rough" and she is always here arguing with me and telling me that "i'm glad her Mother's dead" and it would be the kindest thing to "hand the house over to the Family". I am verbally abused on an almost weekly basis, but I don't want to get the police involved as obviously this poor woman is grieving and is probably extremely shocked and confused. She keep harping on about a life insurance policy and asking me where it is. I haven't the faintest idea but the son seems to think that I know where it is but that i'm refusing to hand it over. They claim they want the life insurance policy to pay for funeral costs and a memorial but I genuinely have no idea where it is.I'm happy to pay for the funeral, i've told them this as it's the least I can do but the response I frequently get is "it's not your money". How should I deal with this extremely uncomfortable situation?

4 answers · Etiquette · 1 month ago"

Troll.

You aren't 16 in a lot of your other questions.

Your mom already knows that you have been stressed and put out by this change. Please believe me, your mom has been that much stressed and more so. She wouldn't have brought gramma to live with you if she knew of a better solution. So I suggest you complain to you friends, and just be sweet to your mom.

haven't we all been down this road before? Try a different approach.

Wrong. You are an ungrateful little prat.

Talk to your mother.