How come some of the answers I get are not that uplifting?

I'm not sure what you mean by "uplifting". If you mean answers that agree with your own point of view then you won't always get that here on YA because many people with many different life experiences and opinions answer on here, and then of course there's always the trouble makers and trolls to contend with. In any case, I see you've only asked one other question and so far it has two good answers, I'm not sure what else you're looking for. Maybe you can ask your question again to see what kind of answers you get this time around.

I don't know what kind of questions you ask but most people will try to answer honestly even if that answer does not make you happy. Of course there are trolls that will insult you or mock you because they can and you don't know them.