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Answer please!!!! any kind of help would be highly appreciated. should i give up on my crush?
he is quiet and reserved. Has lots of female friends (he is very comfortable and jokes around them a lot). Is geeky.
-we sat next to each other, he initiated a conversation with me, asked my name etc..
-in the hallway he made a really long eye contact and looked me up and down bluntly whilst smiling and said hi.
-there came a period he avoided me until i went up to him and said hi. he again asked what my name was and apologized that he had forgotten it, said he noticed me in the lecture (I did not notice him looking at me at all). he seemed flustered and stumbled upon his words.
-I was talking to a few people and he quickly walked by me and said hi how are you and then ran away without even waiting for a response.
-he hesitated whilst deciding whether to sit next to me or his friend who was right in front of me, but he chose me. He avoided eye contact but When looking into my eyes he stumbled upon his words again.
- I asked him out on a study date (just the two of us), we spent 4 hours together. at first he was uptight and really serious, towards the end he got a bit more comfortable (made jokes, high fived me twice, talked a lot)
-week after that, I missed two of the lectures (I never missed any). After 3 years of not posting anything on facebook, He posted a status saying “missing wifey”. No girl commented under it and the ones who" liked" it were me and a few of his close female and male friends.
-day after he posted this, I went to the lecture, my head was down, I noticed he was walking towards me and looked at me so I looked up, again he smiled and said hi how are you.
-after a week I invited him to sit next to me, he seemed more uncomfortable and uptight and serious than ever. I made a joke, he didn’t laugh. At the end of the class he went up to his male friend. Suddenly turned to me and asked if I wanted to stay with them for the maths lecture (I had told him that I was free after this class) ,I said I could if he wanted me to, then he said “no, you don’t wanna be bored by stupid maths”
after a week I invited him to sit next to me, he seemed more uncomfortable and uptight and serious than ever. I made a joke, he didn’t laugh. At the end of the class he went up to his male friend. Suddenly turned to me and asked if I wanted to stay with them for the maths lecture (I had told him that I was free after this class) ,I said I could if he wanted me to, then he said “no, you don’t wanna be bored by stupid maths”
-saw him at the library with this same friend, went up and said hi, he said hey then completely avoided me and when I asked questions and talked, his friend answered me instead of him.
-his Instagram is private and I don’t follow him cause I don’t have one but I checked it everyday and after what happened at the library, he changed his insta bio from “Spanish” to “Spanish and proud, ladies form a line”
-the semester ended and I don’t know if I can see him anymore so I messaged him on fb
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hoping if he was a least bit interested he'd ask what i wanted to ask him and not just let the conversation die.
i'm a 100% sure i haven't done anything wrong for him to avoid me. no one even knows i have a crush on him. we don't have mutual friends either. i have no idea what's wrong and why he is acting this way.
he has one friend that he introduced me to and there were a couple of times he had a grin at me when he saw me and when i was at the library he walked past me to see what i was doing and my head was down
3 Answers
- ?Lv 46 years ago
Typical behavior from a guy. I do this as well to a girl that I have a crush on at school.
Usually they would try to attract their crush's attention by avoiding/ignoring her, hoping that their crush would show interest in them by uhh..just looking at him/her.
If he does talk to you a bit but ignores you whenever he is around you, then yes. He DOES like you indeed. I should know this, I ignore/avoid girls that I like because I want to attract their attention. It's reverse psychology.
The point is: The more amiable your crush is to you, the less likely he is to actually develop a crush on you (Guys are usually only friendly to girls that they think of as friends only, since they have no interest in engaging in a relationship with them, and they'll usually be a lot more careful with girls that they do like.)
- HOLLOWLv 66 years ago
Well you are doing your job nicely madam, just keep the distance you are keeping until now, be yourself and dont allow yourself to get lost, try to have fun with other guys as well, you are young you have time, it is an amazing feeling when you have a crush on somebody, so many things can happen, just wait and see what happens, try to go to events whhere he goes as well and see what happens, normally guys will show themselves more outside of school...
Hope it works good luck
- 6 years ago
Have you told him how you feel? Some times you just need to be straight forward. Guys are not the best at getting or giving "hints"
And if he's your crush why would you give up on him without knowing if he likes you or not?
