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GUYS, please help i'm so confused!? should i give up on him?10 pts?

he is quiet and reserved. Has lots of female friends (he is very comfortable and jokes around them a lot). Is geeky.

-we sat next to each other, he initiated a conversation with me

-made intense eye contact whilst smiling at me

-avoided me until i went up to him and talked. he seemed flustered. (stumbled upon his words)

-always said hi when he saw me (with a smile and eye contact)

-i asked him on a study date. towards the end he had gotten more comfortable around me (high fived me twice, made jokes)

-week after that, I missed two of the lectures (I never missed any). He posted a status saying “missing wifey”. No girl commented under it.

-day after, he saw me and gave me a big smile

-invited him to sit next to me. he seemed more uncomfortable, uptight and serious than ever. I made a joke, he didn’t laugh. At the end of the class he asked if I wanted to stay with him for the maths lecture (I had told him that I was free) ,I said I could if he wanted me to, then he said “no, you don’t wanna be bored by stupid maths”

-saw him at the library with his friend, went up and said hi, he said hey then completely avoided me and when I asked questions and talked, his friend answered me instead of him.

-he changed his insta bio from “Spanish” to “Spanish and proud, ladies form a line”

(then after a few days he changed it back)

Update:

semester ended and I don’t know if I can see him anymore so I messaged him on fb

https://www.imageupload.co.uk/image/ZFby

https://www.imageupload.co.uk/image/ZFbC

hoping if he was a least bit interested he'd ask what i wanted to ask him and not just let the conversation die.

Update 2:

i'm a 100% sure i haven't done anything wrong for him to avoid me. no one even knows i have a crush on him. we don't have mutual friends either. i have no idea what's wrong and why he is acting this way.

he has one friend that he introduced me to and there were a couple of times he had a grin at me when he saw me and when i was at the library he walked past me to see what i was doing and my head was down

Update 3:

He is known to be an overall nice guy, isnt the type to play games, all his female and male friends are studious people (nerds) who are all grnuine and friendly.

3 Answers

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  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Well, if u choose to give up on it and find smth more worthy, u can use dating websites in UK.

  • ?
    Lv 4
    6 years ago

    Never give up on him, and find another in the meantime.

  • 6 years ago

    Ask your heart.

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