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Why do I feel like I'm not good enough for him and like he secretly dislikes me?

I am noticing some very scary things in my life here recently. I just came out of a 17 year relationship and started dating a man whom is 9 years younger than me. We have known each other for 2 years, and over the past year we have spoke daily/nightly.He admitted that he loved me back in December. We made our relationship official in March. Things were going great, and according to him they still are but I am finding that I am constantly trying to figure out what he sees in me. He tells me he loves me everyday, he is always talking positive about me when we are out with people. Our sex life is amazing. He tells me I am beautiful and he is always talking about our future together. But even though all of these signs of his interest in me are there, I keep getting the feeling that he's too good for me, and then I close up and get mad and try to find reasons that could mean he is losing interest in me? I don't understand what is going on here. I feel like I need constant reassurance from him and I know this could put a strain on our relationship. I love him so much, and I hate doing this. What could be causing me to act this way? It seems every other day we are talking about our feelings and how my behavior or his behavior makes us feel and it still keeps happening. Help!

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  • david
    Lv 6
    6 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    You're letting your personal insecurities get in the way.

  • 6 years ago

    Best advice I've gotten, and I'm sharing with YOU:

    "If in doubt, don't".

    You have several issues. "What could be causing me to act this way?"

    You've not been honest with him about your feelings.

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    You are clearly an insecure IDIOT. Wake UP. His behavior is all you need to see. No person is better than any other person...unless this person can WALK ON WATER and FLOAT UP to the SKY with no assistance. We are all here on this rock hurtling through empty space and you can't seem to get over the fact that YOUR LIFE IS GOING WELL????? If you need to CONSULT a PROFESSIONAL...then go ahead and WASTE your money. Heaven forbid..."my life is too good"

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Make a date

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  • 6 years ago

    IF U THINK UR BOYFRIEND IS CHEATING ON YOU. YOU SHOULD JUST TRY TO FIND OUT IF HE IS LIKE CHECK FOR HAIR AROUND HIS MOUTH. CHECK HIS PHONE IF HE IS USING PORN INSTEAD OF YOU. CHECK IF THERE IS ANY VICTORIA'S SECRET IN HIS LAUNDRY

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    You must be insecure from your former relationship

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