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PLEASE HELP. is my crush playing games or does he not like me at all?

he is quiet and reserved. Has lots of female friends (he is very comfortable and jokes around them a lot). Is geeky.

-we sat next to each other, he initiated a conversation with me, asked my name etc..

-in the hallway he made a really long eye contact and looked me up and down bluntly whilst smiling and said hi.

-there came a period he avoided me until i went up to him and said hi. he again asked what my name was and apologized that he had forgotten it, said he noticed me in the lecture (I did not notice him looking at me at all). he seemed flustered and stumbled upon his words.

-I was talking to a few people and he quickly walked by me and said hi how are you and then ran away without even waiting for a response.

-he hesitated whilst deciding whether to sit next to me or his friend who was right in front of me, but he chose me. He avoided eye contact but When looking into my eyes he stumbled upon his words again.

- I asked him out on a study date (just the two of us), we spent 4 hours together. at first he was uptight and really serious, towards the end he got a bit more comfortable (made jokes, high fived me twice, talked a lot)

-week after that, I missed two of the lectures (I never missed any). After 3 years of not posting anything on facebook, He posted a status saying “missing wifey”. No girl commented under it and the ones who" liked" it were me and a few of his close female and male friends.

Update:

-day after he posted this, I went to the lecture, my head was down, I noticed he was walking towards me and looked at me so I looked up, again he smiled and said hi how are you.

Update 2:

-after a week I invited him to sit next to me, he seemed more uncomfortable and uptight and serious than ever. I made a joke, he didn’t laugh. At the end of the class he went up to his male friend. Suddenly turned to me and asked if I wanted to stay with them for the maths lecture (I had told him that I was free after this class) ,I said I could if he wanted me to, then he said “no, you don’t wanna be bored by stupid maths”

Update 3:

-saw him at the library with this same friend, went up and said hi, he said hey then completely avoided me and when I asked questions and talked, his friend answered me instead of him.

-his Instagram is private and I don’t follow him cause I don’t have one but I checked it everyday and after what happened at the library, he changed his insta bio from “Spanish” to “Spanish and proud, ladies form a line”

Update 4:

-the semester ended and I don’t know if I can see him anymore so I messaged him on fb

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hoping if he was a least bit interested he'd ask what i wanted to ask him and not just let the conversation die.

Update 5:

we are both very unexperienced in this whole dating thing. think we're both confused?

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  • 6 years ago
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    Well it's all a bit contradicting. He seems interested, next day not, next day interested again and so on. I've been on this situation for a couple of years and it was very bugging and made me overthink every second of my day. But in the end if the guy really likes you he will do something about it. You like him and your brain is giving you reasons and excuses that he likes you too even if he may not. Love is blind so be careful and don't rush or do or say anything you might regret. give it time and notice how he treats other girls too

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