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Is it normal to be filled with this much rage and hate?
We where childhood friends. We have know each other sense the 7th grade. I had to move because my company relocated from Phoenix to Bremerton Washington. I miss her a lot we where on and off for many years but always close. She is a nurse so she works crazy hours so it's hard to text/call/FaceTime. She gets very angry if I wake her up after a long shift and I call. We did everything toghther we where that close. I even saved my shirt from the last date before I moved it still smells like her. My sister snd mom do not like her and my 19 year old sister says she is a control freak and has no respect for anyone else. When we would go on dates she would always show up an hour late. My sister nearly punched her until my dad and I broke it up. My sister says I should leave her *** and find a women that is good with time and commentments. I saved 1000 dollars from my job and put it in a special account so she could come visit me in Seattle later on in the year. She flip flops so much I am nervous to buy a plane ticket because if he backs out its money down the Toliet. I miss her :-( she was my everything and I loved her with all my heart I feel like this is not good for my healthy worrying so much. I have not even got the chance to enjoy the new city I am in I am so depressed. i feel like she will leave me soon for another man. I tried to FaceTime and text and now she won't even respond Or call back. It's been a week sense I last heard back figured she was working double shifts :-(
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- 6 years agoFavorite Answer
I really don't see rage or hate by the way you're describing the situation. I see you mostly being frustrated and sad. I think that the two of you are growing apart, I'm sorry to say. At least she is. If she felt the same love as you do, she would find the time to at least text "Hello!" whenever it was convenient for her. If the two of you have not been in contact for a week, and have been so close after all these years, there must have been something that occurred recently; maybe an argument over the phone? One last thing I want to say, but I hope you can handle, is that she might have another love interest in mind. That's going to drive you bananas now, but use your best intuition. So you've got to ask yourself if she still seems like she's still in love with you. If you are in one city & she's in another, people can grow apart. Take a deep breath, call her, and ask her directly if she still loves you, wants to continue this relationship, and if she's seeing anyone else. Good luck.
- ferrisulfLv 76 years ago
Let me tell you something that may be hard for you to hear: Even if this woman is working double shifts and is super busy--if someone means that much to you, they make the effort to keep in touch regardless. You're doing everything to make this work. What is SHE bringing to the table? It sounds like your family has already seen what you don't want to see. Sounds like she wasn't great for you even when you lived in the same area.
This isn't good for your health, your self esteem...it isn't good for you. Period.
You deserve to be treated better than this.
- Anonymous6 years ago
"Is it normal to be filled with this much rage and hate"
It is if you are religious.
Very normal.
