I miss my as*hole boyfriend :(?

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Recently, I broke up with him because he was very, very possessive. He wouldn't let me talk to guys, when a guy commented on my picture on instagram, he would get mad at me and start yelling and asking who he is. He made me cut off all my guy friends, he would stalk all my social media to see what I'm doing and who I'm talking to. He'd yell at me constantly about anything guy related, say I'm a bad girlfriend because of this incident where he tried to visit me, but I didn't let him. But anyway, that's a whole different story. When I broke up with him, he even threatened to leak my nudes to everyone as revenge if I wouldn't come back. He was horrible, and I know that leaving him is good for me. But some other part of me misses him. I also feel really bad because he was depressed, had a bad home life, and he almost killed himself a few times. Right after I broke up with him he had to go to the hospital because he bled so much after harming himself... And he was a good boyfriend sometimes... I just feel so bad. I don't know what to do...

Anonymous · Answer

Wow sorry to say this but being attracted to Arab bad boy terrorists and missing a jerkowad bully boyfriend, I mean seriously would you ever even consider a decent nice guy that would actually love you and not be so freaking jealous and possessive that wouldn't beat the holy living crap out of any guy that even breathes in your direction? I'm sorry for being so blunt and honest but you even considering and being attracted and wanting to be with these jerkwad a$$wipe bully mean bastards that just want to possess you and for you wanting to be there property, I really think you should talk to someone about this. I mean seriously is this all you think you're worth? Sorry for ranting but I've known tons upon tons upon tons of guys like your boyfriend and have been threatened and injured bad by guys just like that all because I was friends with there girls. And I'm seriously sick of girls being so stupid to even be attracted to these dangerous bully a$$wipes!!!

Ham · Answer

You list out his true self quite openly so I dare say you are not looking through rose colour glasses.  On the feeling bad, it isn't all that odd if you think about it.  For a start, you don't wish him harm or sadness or suffering so to see someone near you go through this is not pleasant.  Secondly,  he was your boyfriend and for the rest of your life you should hold and value those things you did have.  That doesn't mean that you have inclination to go back to him. It merely means that your feelings are conflicting in your mind until you become fully familiar with them.

Anonymous · Answer

okay why would you even want a boy friend like this you should have a boy friend that respects you, and someone who would truly love you would let you have some space and not threaten you to leak nudes i think you can do better and i think you miss him because i mean you probably feel pity for him trust me girls that are nice do pity dates so i really hoped this helped :)

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