Why did he just stop talking to me?

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A few years ago, when I was in 7th grade, I met this guy in Spanish class, I liked him, and he seemed to like me back. He eventually confessed to me, and we started dating. At first it was great, we enjoyed each other's company and I used to sit on his lap and play with his hair when we had substitutes (lol) and it was just really nice. When we danced together it was like magic. When he put his hands on my waist it was like a warm blanket of safety and warmth. He always told me how much he loved me, and that I'm beautiful, and that he'd do anything to make me happy. Then he moved away. That's when he started treating me like his personal sex doll. He always asked me for boob pics, nudes, videos of me moaning his name, and like a fool I eventually caved in and gave him what he wanted. One day he asked me to deep throat a banana while moaning his name, and I was like "Hell no". So then he was like "I don't wanna talk to you now, just go". And a few months ago, he told me he needed space so I was like sure go ahead. And before I knew it, he cut me off completely. He blocked me and unfollowed me on instagram, and stopped responding to my texts and phone calls. I'm so sad and confused. He still treats all the other girls around him like normal. Why did he get sick of me and just leave me hanging? By the way, I'm not one of those insecure girls who relies on male validation. I'm pretty confident in myself, and I know my own worth. But at the same time I can't help but miss him :(

Anonymous · Answer

I agree pretty much with what @Travarsky said. Unless the guy is someone you're gonna marry or permanently commit too why would you send those kind of pictures to him anyway? Seriously. Don't you have any respect for yourself? Are you just gonna cave in and do disgusting gross $hit to any guy who asks you too? Those are the kind of guys you should ditch and block immediately and move on cause they don't give a flying fu** about you or how you feel. For real to them you're no different then a blow up doll as you said above. Be happy that he stopped talking to you. Seriously do you even like yourself? Also I don't mean to sound like a nag, but are you ever gonna Email me ever? I really would like to talk to you more about a lot of things and it's hard to do it here on Yahoo answers. In case my Email didn't show up in comments my Email is proisrael7@gmail.com

Travarsky · Answer

Sounds to me like sex is what he wanted all along. There are some people that will do everything in their power to convince you of certain feelings, just to get what they want. However there are some guys, who won't play with your heart like that.

Move on. He's so far from the best you'd get. And would have probably ended up cheating on you one day anyway.

Rebecca · Answer

He's just a typical young boy. Move onto the next. He's not worth your time sweetie. Boys mature much slower than girls. Go for an older guy. Like 8th grade maybe lol.

? · Answer

You should date an older guy like me baby. I am 21 and only have one semester left in college. Leave those little boys alone.

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Why did he just stop talking to me?

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