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My friend killed my other friend.. i dont know how to feel.?
There was a group of us who were all best friends. I mean we were close not like these phony people. so 2 of my friends were together with another girl and went on a ride. The girl asked to pull the car over because something was wrong with the mud flap. when my friend got out to help the girl she started shooting her multiple times. The girl chased her and gunned her down. She then hopped back in the car and told my other friend he needed to take her to new york. Afterwards he came to my dead friends mom and told her what happened. now i'm just blown away. I'm so upset because i want to hate him and i can't. How do i cope with this? The trial is at the end of the month and I'm supposed to talk in court and i jus dontknow where to begin.
3 Answers
- tehabwaLv 76 years ago
Uh, the girl killed your friend. Why do you say your friend did? Did the friend KNOW that's what she was going to do?
As for court, you weren't there. So why would YOU testify? To WHAT, exactly?
if you're going to testify, then whichever side you are a witness for will go over everything with you.
Or do you mean for the sentencing phase?
Has your friend been charged?
Do you have ANY idea of what happened and why? Usually people don't shoot someone for no reason -- whether some motive, or insanity, or something.
You've failed to explain ANYTHING relevant.
As to how to feel, suppose I told you that you should feel X emotion, what would that do? Magically feel that?
That your feelings are conflicted is completely understandable.
If you don't want to speak at the sentencing hearing, then don't. If you don't know how you feel, then you have nothing to say at a sentencing hearing.
If you are testifying, it's not about your feelings, it's about whatever facts you know.
- 6 years ago
The way you told the story, it sounds like the girl killed one of your friends, and the other one was forced to stand by as it happened. Ic that is the correct case, then it's not your friend's fault.
Just.. Be careful when you talk in court. Since someone died, the charges can easily become huge. Don't forget that although this death may have changed your life, you are also going to be changing the [charged person]'s life.
Best wishes and my condolences. I'm sorry about your loss and hope for bright things in your future.
- 6 years ago
I'm so sorry that happened to your friends. I bet the simple idea of that happening is an unreal thought =/
If I were you then I would get new friends and see a therapist. You need a person to talk to about all that's happened and how you feel. Once again I am so sorry, and Good Luck =)
