What am I supposed to feel during sex?

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I lost my v yesterday and during the whole time, I didn't feel anything... It was a slight pinch when he entered but he was big. I didn't bleed or anything so that was good. Over all no matter how many times we did it, it didn't feel good and he kept eating me out and I didn't know what I was supposed to feel. When he did, he rubbed my clit and it just kinda hurt and when he fingered me really fast, I really wanted to pee but he said it was cuz I was about to ***. Yea so the whole time, I didn't feel anything, it wasn't good, I was literally just laying there and he was enjoying himself. I know the first time wasn't supposed to feel good, but I don't know what I'm supposed to feel or expect. And with eating out, everything he did hurt and I told him. He said I was resisting. So when he was eating me out, I didn't feel good accept this weird feeling that I hated cuz it hurt from near my stomach.

Helen · Answer

It's true that the first time isn't usually great for the majority of us!
But it shouldn't be an awful, unpleasant or painful experience every time since. Are you sure you are happy in the relationship/feel physically attracted to your boyfriend, etc?
Your age, and your boyfriend's age and level of experience may have something to do with it. He may not know what he's doing, or know how to please you. Or it may be because you are inexperienced and haven't yet discovered what you like. 
If you don't already, I would suggest you to try masturbating to help you discover this, and then you can guide your boyfriend to know how to please you.

? · Answer

You are supposed to enjoy it when you have sex, so either you partner doesn't know what he is doing, or you didn't really want to have sex with him in the first place.
But if you want to enjoy sex, first you need to learn what feels good yourself.  So start with masturbating on your own, then when you have worked out what feels best you can then teach your boyfriend how to masturbate you.  Then, once he has learned how to make you come with his fingers he can move on to learning how to do it with his penis.  There's a lot to learn, but if he is patient it is worth it in the end.

jcinhd · Answer

he wasn't doing it right lol poor thing.. hopefully with time you will feel something

Sdfsfjn · Answer

it was ur first time relax...give it a couple more times. if u still aren't finding it enjoyable talk ur doctor

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