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Valentina
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Valentina asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 6 years ago

I'm confused i need advice?

I have been with my fiance' for 6 years. he is disabled, meaning that he is on a wheel chair. Anyway we have had a wonderful relationship (so I thought) and the other day he was talking about the past and he told me that if his ex-wife would have been the one to take care of him, his life would be better . they they have been divorced for over 20 years. I am confused. I think that he has always wanted to be with his ex-wife, and the only reason he is with me is because he needs me. any advice?

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  • Cat Lover
    Lv 7
    6 years ago

    So he says his life would be better if his ex-wife had been the one to take care of him, huh? What a terrible thing to say to you. I think if someone said that to me, my first thought would be, "Well, let's see how good your life is when I'm gone."

    I'm sure you love him and hopefully he didn't really mean it. But he sure owes you a big apology, in my opinion.

    Taking care of a disabled person in a wheelchair is a tremendous job. And I'm sure he gets frustrated with his life at times, but you deserve an awful lot of credit for taking on such a big responsibility.

    I guess I don't really have any advice since I don't know you and don't know the whole story, but if I thought he was serious and didn't appreciate me and love me, I do know what I'd do.

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