Is it weird that I am 19 and never had a boyfriend?

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I am in college and I am working hard for my degree. It would be nice to have a boyfriend at times but I am just too busy. Also nobody came along that I was interested in. I wanted to know if that's strange. A lot of my friends are taken and some even lost virginity. I know its hard to put an age on it. You find the right one when you do. I just cannot help but feel strange at times.

Nicole · Accepted Answer

Having a boyfriend is not everything :) You should not feel rushed into having a boyfriend. Relationships are great but at the same time they often cause a lot of stress and anxiety within your everyday life. Getting a degree is difficult enough without throwing a relationship into the mix. Take things at your own pace :) don't be a sheep, meaning don't just do something because all of your friends are. Wait until a guy comes along who makes you feel at ease and does not try to rush you into things

Anonymous · Answer

There's nothing really wrong about never having a boyfriend, in some ways it's useful since you can focus on school and stuff. A lot of the negative thoughts about never having a boyfriend before are from peer pressure from your friends and even from films and TV shows.

jcinhd · Answer

thats good that you put yourself before a relationship... just don't wait to long before looking for a bf.. if you don't go out a lot now would be the time just to let loose and have a little fun

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Is it weird that I am 19 and never had a boyfriend?

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