I Know my dad is cheating, should I confront him?

1) It's not your business

2) It's likely your mom knows and approves. That type of activity can not be hidden forever. If dad was stupid enough to let YOU know about it...

Then it's likely that his wife knew about it a long time ago. Possibly before the activity even started.

3) In the unlikely event that your mom truly is clueless, then it's not your business anyway. A marriage is about two people, PERIOD. You might be your mom's daughter...but you are not married to her. So you do not discuss her marriage with her. Any aspect of her marriage.

4) As for wasting money on whores....money that the family needs...

THAT is a unfounded (and bluntly) naive assertion. First, it assumes that the money is wasted. That's not a valid assumption. We all need certain entertainment to keep us sane.

To put it another way...if he wasn't spending money on the "whore", he might have divorced your mother a long time ago. In that case, being divorced...he'd be spending a LOT More money on women other than your mother. Yeah, that's right. That's why your assertion that the money is wasted and/or diverted from the family is naive...

I would just stay out of it. if it realy bothers you have a sit down with both your parents but if your mom doesn't know get ready for her to probably comit suicide. its best in cases like this to stay out of your parents love life. its kinda weird that you know so much about what your father is hiring the hooker to do to him. nose out of mom and dads life. they might just be staying together for you kids and no other reason so don't be shocked when the youngest kid is out the door and they file the paperwork. your parents could also have a open marriage wear they have sex with other people because a divorce would be too costly. so essentially they aren't married they are more like financial partners. just stay silent and forget you found out. trust me its easier that way. remember how your dad treated your mom and don't do that to any women you love in the future.

Yes, but quietly and don't say anything to your Mom yet till you've chatted to your Dad.

Well you should first of all capitalize the K in "Know" and ******* learn to spell you illiterate ****

forget about it. your mother is probably pleased that he is not bothering her.