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Is it bad that I don't care anymore?

Hello! I recently got married over a year ago. I have had this friend for awhile since then (around 5 years). She was a bridesmaid in my wedding and was a "best" friend. After I got married she really started being negative, judgmental, etc. towards me. All she would text/Facebook would be rude, immature comments, so I deleted her off Facebook and stopped texting her. She doesn't get it even though I say "stop being negative, you need to grow up and quit being immature, etc." I'm perfectly happy, and it has not affected me to lose her as a friend. I just was wondering has anybody else experienced the same thing or maybe what her problem is? If somebody has gone through it I want to say NOBODY deserved a person that puts people down in their life so sometimes the best choice is to lose a friend instead of being in a situation where negativity is making you feel bad... you don't deserve it!

Update:

Thank you for your answers so far! I'm not over thinking it- I am just intrigued by psychology and what makes people do what they do. :)

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  • 6 years ago

    Just sit down and talk to her. Even if you don't want to, you need to know what's wrong. Maybe she is holding a grudge on you for something that was an accident. Work it out with her. Maybe something is happening in her life. Trust me, she needs you right now.

  • 6 years ago

    Yes I have been through this and no it isn't bad if you stop caring.The best thing is to remove negatives from your life.It seems as if you do still care though because you're over there thinking about it.

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