Is there any hope to find love as a (pre-transwoman)?

There's so many points I would like to bring up thst I don't know where to start. First of all, being a transsexual may cause some sexual confusion. Of course, not all of us go though this process. Sexuality is very difficult when your gender identity and physical sex doesn't match. Some of us are not able to be sexual beings until transition has taken place. When we are fully comfortable with ourselves, our sexuality may easier fall in place. Secondly, you did not have straight sex. You are a women with an "outy instead of an inny" if u know what I mean. It doesn't matter if you had intercourse with a woman. Pj is totally right on with that one. There are many lesbians who are aggressive in bed. That doesn't make them, straight. There are transpeople who enjoy having sex with their " pre -op" parts. There are many transmen who have intercourse with other men. That doesn't mean that they are less trans than the rest of us. It is perfectly alright to keep your appendenge and still transition to womanhood. How you want to transition Is solely up to you. Some just take hormones, some just dress, some just do top surgery, some just do bottom surgery, and some can do all or any combination. It depends on what you feel it best. Don't freak out about it. It was a learning experience. Now you just have to weigh your options. Maybe subconciously, you just wanted to experience what it feels like to have sex with your current parts before the operation id complete. There's nothing wrong with being curious. Personally, I find sexual intimacy complicated because of my female parts. So maybe you are heading towards a plane of consciousness and feeling less dysphoric, which is an excellent thing! And let's not rule out the possibility that hormones are playing a factor in your sex life. The hormones that u suppose to always have in the beginning may be working well for you.

Yes it's possible, but you'll probably find it easier post-op. As a pre-op you're more likely to attract men because of that rather than because you are female and he may not feel the same about you once you have a vagina. Been there, done that when I was pre-op and I dumped him.

Of course, you can find that special someone.

Once you start hormones, your shape will change drastically. Star early nough and yiu will develop curves and a femme voice.

16 is just a difficult age it does get better though as most people become more open minded when they are older. You will find the one for you if you just keep looking.

Well, I am trying to find a trans girl to date. There are not so much guys like me. But we exist.