Does he like me!!? Was he flirting?
Is there a chance for us to be together?

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My guy friend who I like was flirting with me the other day when we were hanging out he kept thinking of sexual references to whatever we were talking about. At one point he's like " and you'd be in a bikini so I'm assuming he was thinking of me in a bikini and I don't think friends do that anyway it was that sort of talk all night from like 5-9 then he walked me home but didn't hug me or anything but he is shy
I texted him on Tuesday and he hasn't answered back does this mean he doesn't want to talk to me cause of what happened or could be just be busy also does this mean that he could like me we are both 18 so we both have graduated HighSchool but aren't going to school right away so there is a chance that we could have a relationship I just need tips on how to do that its not like we're best friends we knew each other in grade 12 but have only hung out a couple times this summer what do I do!?

Lisa · Accepted Answer

Okay, do not make the mistake of thinking that a boy FRIEND would not think of you sexually. Guys think about EVERYONE sexually. They've even imagined themselves having sex with the toothless crone with the mullet who works at the Kwik Mart. However, it's not the worst sign that he was bringing this up to you. It sounds to me like he was feeling you out to see if you were possibly interested. The concerning thing however is the unanswered text. If a guy you liked texted you, wouldn't you be thrilled? Would you IGNORE the text? Not on your life. Nor would you let three days pass without texting the object of your affection. My verdict: He's just not that into you. I think this would be a waste of your time. He's not pursuing you (surely he would have tried to hang out more than a couple of times) and he's not responding to your tentative advances.

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